All girls sometime in their life dream that someday they would be mothers themselves....and when they actually become what they always dreamed of........why is it that rearing a child becomes more of a science experiment than a beautiful life experience.......so here are a few happy mother tips for that happy experience.....................1.Take it easy....relax-I have seen many moms,parents,in-laws getting hyper active for a new born.....do not over-excite the child.....the hyper behaviour of the care taker actually affect the child sub-consciously...so its time to relax..thats the manthra....2.Regarding sleep patterns and irregular sleep disorders...let the child play and then be tired to retire to sleep......and please do not over-excite the child when in bed...turn the lights to dim,if possible play soft music or tell him a story...a lullaby is a great idea again but dont shake -shake the child like he is some sort of milk shake...have seen most of the parents wierdly do it and then complain that the child is so spoilt......(look who's talking..thats what I tell them)......3.Feeding-well dont over feed the child,the tummy of a child is as big as his fist..so control portions..whatever he eats let it be healthy and yes not too much........4.Don't over indulge as a parent...that means the child has too less requirements so dont confuse the child too much.....5.Of course the good old sanskars work....so from the very young do instill those good values that will help your bundle of joy forever...Believe me parents when people compliment my son ...i feel so proud of me and Gopal doing it together...the way we always wanted to..........not the right way but the heart way ........listen and always believe in your parental instincts so parenting is not science but an art.......happy parenting....will keep posting more.......
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