Neetu's world: Bringing up a happy child is not SCIENCE but ART

Neetu's world: Bringing up a happy child is not SCIENCE but ART: All girls sometime in their life dream that someday they would be mothers themselves....and when they actually become what they always drea...

Neetu's world: My experience thru the yrs.....

Neetu's world: My experience thru the yrs.....: I'm a power -packed mom ,with a lovely ,bright son who has taught me life's little lessons thru with wonderful little actions....Married ea...

Neetu's world: new life new challanges....

Neetu's world: new life new challanges....: there r many a times in life we feel we have a new life again.......when a child learns 2 hold his head for the first time,first walk,first ...

Neetu's world: Travelling extensively......

Neetu's world: Travelling extensively......: I have been very lucky ,must say as being only 10 yrs with my hubby in the forces...i have been 2 most rare of places...people would'nt even...

Neetu's world: Growing with experiences.....growing with HIM........

Neetu's world: Growing with experiences.....growing with HIM........: How old are you??Thats the question I'm asked enn number of times....does wisdom have to do anything with years??I say not!!you may find a v...

Neetu's world: Mom M Hungry

Neetu's world: Mom M Hungry: My 6 yr old superman sure knows to keep his mom super busy and super mom as ever.....he come back from school....or play and demands certai...

Neetu's world: Bringing up a happy child is not SCIENCE but ART

Neetu's world: Bringing up a happy child is not SCIENCE but ART: All girls sometime in their life dream that someday they would be mothers themselves....and when they actually become what they always drea...

Bringing up a happy child is not SCIENCE but ART

All girls sometime in their life dream that someday they would be mothers themselves....and when they actually become what they always dreamed of........why is it that rearing a child becomes more of a science experiment than a beautiful life experience.......so here are a few happy mother tips for that happy experience.....................1.Take it easy....relax-I have seen many moms,parents,in-laws getting hyper active for a new born.....do not over-excite the child.....the hyper behaviour of the care taker actually affect the child sub-consciously...so its time to relax..thats the manthra....2.Regarding sleep patterns and irregular sleep disorders...let the child play and then be tired to retire to sleep......and please do not over-excite the child when in bed...turn the lights to dim,if possible play soft music or tell him a story...a lullaby is a great idea again but dont shake -shake the child like he is some sort of milk shake...have seen most of the parents wierdly do it and then complain that the child is so spoilt......(look who's talking..thats what I tell them)......3.Feeding-well dont over feed the child,the tummy of a child is as big as his fist..so control portions..whatever he eats let it be healthy and yes not too much........4.Don't over indulge as a parent...that means the child has too less requirements so dont confuse the child too much.....5.Of course the good old sanskars work....so from the very young do instill those good values that will help your bundle of joy forever...Believe me parents when people compliment my son ...i feel so proud of me and Gopal doing it together...the way we always wanted to..........not the right way but the heart way ........listen and always believe in your parental instincts so parenting is not science but an art.......happy parenting....will keep posting more.......

Mom M Hungry

My 6 yr old superman sure knows to keep his mom super busy and super mom as ever.....he come back from school....or play and demands certain sweet things which I love to give him but sumtimes wonder whether they are healthy for him or not!!!?So I myself redefined certain finger foods so that he would be as happy and me as a mom ........wickedly satisfied....hehehehe........his favourite sausages were reincarnated into hommade ones with palak sauce.........try it moms......take some boneless chicken and mix various herbs.......like pepper,oregano...whatever your kid likes..mash it into the  mixer ..........roll the mashed chicken rolls into a foil paper and boil them in really  piping hot water.....take them out.....and cut them into pieces.....refrigerate them if necessary...so that they dont break away.......now even the readymade once can be altered as I do it with Shlok......like put some boiled pureed palak into the sausepan...add some mashed garlic...some mint leaves..for aroma ofcourse....let it cook and then add the sausages...let them cook and saute till glazed n golden in colour...(u dont want ur kiddo to catch u red handed with greens ....is'nt it..;).....)Now serve them...they r happy  with the new ,interesting,yummy flavour.....and you ofcourse as the mom are having the last laugh ....guilt free...I have tried it with my picky son and he loves it too....do try this recepie.......will keep posting more power snacks..till then chao....                                                                                       

Growing with experiences.....growing with HIM.....as an indivisual.....

How old are you??Thats the question I'm asked enn number of times....does wisdom have to do anything with years??I say not!!you may find a very aged person so immature because he/she may not have faced an adverse situation....anytime in his life....and a very young person has sometime or the other gone thru some real life incident.......basically very friendly in my nature and attitude I have found myself land in trouble sometimes...too much of giving in...into some situations....lands even the wisest of indivisual in trouble.....having met a varied indivisuals with varied interests throughout my years....i have only learned....but that does not deter me from commiting my own mistakes......as we commit our own mistakes we learn...when we learn ...we grow wiser....so go ahead and make your own mistakes......my life in the forces has taught me to be strong,confidant,smart,wiser as the years rolling by......when I was 17 I met my first love ...my husband and got married to him...a wise person as he is ....i have imbibed most of his qualities.....he made me a better person,I grew with him...he only taught me to be more independent and self reliant.....only when I interact with various people do I come to know of these new developed qualities......thanks to GOPAL....thats HIM......:)